We all earned that familiar saying
"stick and stones may break your bones, but words can never hurt you." Then we grow up and we the power that words really have.
Words can hurt or annoy you.
So which words, expressions do you find annoying and hope that people would stop using them?
In my list there are many.
The first one is,
"rant"
"Rant" has become our way of invalidating opinions.
The word:
Should
Should we stop using the word "should" ?
How many times a day do you use the word "should" in reference to yourself or other people? We use it a lot.
Have you noticed that telling yourself you should be doing more or being more was not actually helping you do more or be more?
When we use the word "should," we're not accepting reality. We're talking about things that we wish were so, but aren't (or vice versa).
Whenever I used the word "should" when talking to myself, it was motivated by a lack of self-acceptance rather than encouragement.
What's your take on the word "should" ?
I believe we should stop using the expression, "You're being defensive!"
If you've ever been on the receiving end of these words, you know that the last thing that you feel like doing upon hearing them is to drop your guard and open your heart. Ironically, that's probably exactly what the person delivering these words is trying to get you to do.
And going back to the topic of this blog, what words, expressions do you find annoying?